At times, I think it's best not to think about it. The "it" could be anything. I was talking about change last night and there has been a lot of changes in me recently. Is it noticeable? I do not know. But I know one thing for sure and that is I have started seeing my flaws. And I want to improve them. I am extremely impulsive and impatient. I am working on the impatience part, which indirectly leads to jumping to conclusions. And as most knows, everyone jumps to the wrong conclusions.
What I am slowly realizing is that, impatience leads to projecting your inner fears about the situation and then coming to a conclusion which you don't want to happen. But since you think that its the worst case scenario that is inevitably going to happen, you tend to get more frustrated. Though, later on you realize that all the time and energy you spent thinking about all those worst case scenarios was a total waste. Because in reality, nothing really happened. I think the better option is to take things at face value and wait for the plot to unfurl.
The impulsive part is not totally negative. The impulsive acts of the gut are never wrong. Never deny them. But doing things impulsively without giving it a second thought can be dangerous. Those need to be checked. I am very particular about them and try my best not to do something or say something that could hurt someone unknowingly.
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