Get it?

Today was an interesting day :) Observation of the day:

There are times when you want something and you would do anything for it. And at such times, you never realize when your focus on getting it turns into fear of not getting it. In the beginning you are all hopeful about how nice it would be to have it and then as time progresses, before you realize it, you are so afraid of losing what you don't have (messing up such that you don't get it) that your focus changes from getting it, to not losing it (which actually you never had). The outcome is inevitable. You don't get it to lose it.

The case is worse when you are not in a bargaining position or you feel you aren't in one. Then it becomes more difficult. And then when you approach the same situation from a different perspective, things turn out way different. What I mean is when you are not approaching it with the fear of not getting it you are more in your natural element and you don't botch up things. As a result, you end up getting it.

Bottom line I think is to be just "be bindaas! Hai hi nahi to na hone ka kya :D" And then the wheels will turn to help you get that you don't have and keep that you do.